Saturday, February 25, 2017

DAYCATION

A trend has set in. Any employee working under someone else in Nepal, literally goes gaga over holidays during the weekend. Although it may sound bizzare to Westerners, for whom two days long weekend, isn’t a luxury but a norm. More than 40 hours of work week is overtime. But not in our country. So how do we handle this exhilaration of a stretch of 48 hour long break? We go crazy, we run to nearest staycation or daycation spot. And our facebook and instagram scroll busier than usual, with photographs and captions.... of outings and contemplations of life etc.

In such similar strive, we drove to Namobuddha, an outing closest to our abode. Beauty of this place cannot be confined to words. It’s enrapturing placidity mirrors peace, stillness, faith and warmth. It has an aroma of sophisticated mysticism and spirituality, as if an answer to all human frailties, gluttony and malice. However, the last few strides to reach this sanctuary is obnoxiously unpleasant. Our vehicle suffered bumps, curves, caves and thuds along with sheets of mud. My four month old belly cramped all along the unruly lane. We loathed the incompetence of our unstable government, which gobbles hefty taxes from us, but is unable to suffice its obligations. 

Just as we reach the destination, our disappointments of the stumbling journey mists into breezy air. The spotless restfulness ripples at Namobuddha. The yellow-capped hermitage rests at the hills of Kavre, various wings of the monastery is terraced along its stairs. This place wasn’t a stranger though.... We had hiked to this picturesque site, more than a decade ago, in first year of med-school. We were teenagers, freshly paired up with each other, and quite naïve about one another.... one of the fondest memories of maiden years of love. Time has taken its swift flight, and here we are, a family of three.

Our family trip was one of its kind this time, coz we had packed home food with us. Sausages, cheese, bread, juice, papadum, vegetables, etc were in the list. In a cozy nook of this peaceful hilltop, we spread our lunch-pack enjoying the beaming sunshine. Aaliyah was especially elated, as it was so refreshing. There were throngs of visitors from near and far off places, from cities and villages alike. All of them were amusingly busy, taking pictures of themselves, mostly selfies. Women and girls seemed more aware of their dresses and makeup, than the serene scenery. An irony. Changing times. Men on the contrary, were more self-reliant, absorbing the stunning backdrop contently.

The site-seeing lasted a brief hour, and we were heading back sooner than we had reached. Those sixty minutes were cleansing, purgatory and delightful. We were weary but content. Gleeful. Happy. And just like every tour, the journey back home seemed shorter. We were home before twilight guzzled the Dhulikhel sky.